Dear Friend, 

If you’re even considering hiring a social life coach, then it probably does make sense for you to do it - provided you find a good coach, and you’re clear on what you want to accomplish. Here’s why. 

You already study personal development. You already know how much it would really mean to you to have the social life and close social connections of your dreams. And by being here now, by reading this letter, you’re already doing something about it.

You may not realise it, but that puts you in the small fraction of people who not only know what they want, but have the courage and discipline to actually go out and get it.

And because you study personal development, you also know that most of the greatest achievements of mankind, were not accomplished alone

Think about it. The very reason you’re here is because you’re tired of being alone.

 

And the only way you can get past that is to collaborate with other people.

 

So if you’re attached to the idea that you should go about this alone, then you probably should not hire a social life coach.

 

Having said that, I’d like you to consider the following.

 

  • You already know that hiring a good coach is critical to success.
  • You already know that figuring things out by trial and error by yourself, is the longest and hardest way you could go about learning anything.
  • You already know that a good coach who’s been where you are, and who’s overcome what you’re currently challenged by, can help and guide you better than anyone else.
  • You already know that you can have the social life you deserve, and intimate social connections you desire much faster with a coach than without one.
  • You already know that getting specific, tailored feedback on how you can improve your social and emotional skills, is immensely more beneficial to you than getting general advice from a book.

So with all that in mind, surely now’s the time when it makes sense to hire a social life coa​ch.

But There’s a Problem

There are several actually. First, a good coach is expensive, but generally considered to be worth it.

 

The problem is not necessarily in the cost - the problem is in finding the right coach for you.

 

Because, even though a coach may have a good track record of helping other people build the social lives of their dreams, how do you know that the same coach can also help you specifically?

 

Let’s look at the problem this way.

 

As you know, there is no one-size-fits all when it comes to social lives.

 

It takes a different degree of closeness, a different depth of social connection, and a different number or variety of friends to fulfill each of our needs for social intimacy.

 

What kind of social life would make you the happiest?

 

Do you want to meet new people all the time, and have a rich social circle of many friends?

 

Or do you want a smaller social circle of close friends you know really well?

 

Next, remember that everybody is different. Everybody thinks differently, feels differently, and learns differently.

 

That's why hiring a good social life coach is the perfect idea!

 

Because you’re getting a coaching programme tailored specifically to your goals, and to your thinking, feeling, and learning style.

 

So before you hire a social life coach, you want to know you've found one who's flexible, who listens to your goals and feelings, and who has your success as his top priority.

 

I am that coach.

 

Here’s Exactly What You’re Getting with My Social Life Mastery Coaching Package

 

My Social Life Mastery coaching package is six months long. 

 

In my experience, six months is roughly how long it takes to transform; to get past all that fear, insecurity and shyness when it comes to meeting new people.

 

And to evolve your natural charisma, where you're able to engage and connect to anyone at a deep level.

 

In order to achieve this, we meet twice a month in person, in London, for three hours at a time.

 

Just you and me. That’s six hours of one-to-one in-field coaching every month.

 

During our sessions together, you get coaching on overcoming your biggest emotional setbacks when it comes to meeting new people.

 

Whether you're afraid of being rejected, afraid of not being "enough," or afraid of judgement. 

 

You get the tools and mindsets you need to overcome those, so you can feel free to open up in your social interactions, and open up in your social life.

 

Ultimately, this benefits you by boosting your core self-image, and by increasing your overall sense of optimism and well being.

 

Next, we discuss the “people skills” it takes to get your social life to where you want it to be.

 

That’s the conversation techniques, the listening skills, the body language, the rapport-building techniques, and the social circle skills.

 

This benefits you by improving your social intelligence, so you’re able to handle and even lead any social interaction you encounter. No matter how awkward or intimidating.

 

Finally, we put these techniques into action by striking up conversations with strangers​.

 

Why on Earth should you want to talk to strangers?

 

Think about it. There was a time when your best friend was a stranger. So naturally any new person you see right now, could potentially be your next best friend. You never know.

 

But This Is So Much More Than Just Practising on Strangers.

 

This is meeting and engaging strangers in a genuine way, so that you can learn to get to know new people authentically and quickly.

 

That way, when you do meet someone you really get on well with, you have the social and emotional skills to know exactly how to make the most of that situation.

 

While you’re out doing that, you’re also hooked up to a discrete microphone, so I can listen in on your conversations with headphones.

 

​When you return, we discuss what you did well, and what you can do differently next time to better engage, captivate, and connect.

 

​This is the highly-specific, tailored feedback you need to fix all those little mistakes you didn’t know you were making in conversations.

 

And to give you that extra perspective on how you can improve your connections (always useful).

What Makes This Package Unique

 

If you went to any other coach for this, you’d typically be offered a weekend bootcamp, or a week-long “intensive” training.​

 

But, in my experience, one week just isn’t long enough to master the unique skills and mindsets it takes to be able to build and maintain a rewarding social life of close friends from scratch.

 

Let alone a weekend.

 

That’s why I’m offering you six months of one-to-one coaching with me personally.

To my knowledge, you don’t get that anywhere else.

 

Here's Just a Fraction of What You'll Learn

 

  • How to strike up a conversation anywhere, and make it fun - so you never have to worry about being lonely for the rest of your life.
  • How to keep a conversation going well by learning how to pick up on conversational offers, and responding to them in ‘off-script’ ways.
  • How to improve your body language, so you can appear more open and approachable.
  • What to listen out for and what to say, so you can elicit emotional language from people, and connect to them with a depth as if you’ve known each other for years.
  • How to build rapport, comfort and trust with new people quickly, so you can demonstrate your value as a potential friend or acquaintance.
  • How to handle “rejection” so you can feel more confident and positive about meeting new people.
  • How to lead a conversation without being bossy , so you can become more charismatic and attract new people to your social life like a magnet.

  

And it gets better because you're also getting. . .

 

A Bonus Two-Hour Group Call Every Month

 

Did I mention, it's social life coaching?

 

So in addition to the six hours of in-person coaching you get with me personally, every month…

 

...you’re also getting a bonus two-hour group call every month to discuss texting, dating, and all other aspects of your evolving social life.

That way, you get the support and guidance you need to get you through those awkward early stages of a new friendship or relationship.

 

Because it's one thing to learn how to connect with new people, and a completely separate thing to learn how to follow through on those connections, and actually build a fulfilling social life from scratch.

 

And hey - because you're here now, and you're interested enough to still be reading at this point, let me introduce the price.

The 'cost' of my Social Life Mastery coaching package is £8,340.

 

​I know what you're thinking! So let's be honest. It's not cheap.

​However, my reasoning for this price is quite simple.

I want you to get serious results with my coaching. That’s why I’m asking for a serious commitment from you.

 

​Think about it. The more you invest in your own success, the more committed you become to your success.

 

​On the flip side, the less invested you are in your own success, the more open you become to excuse-making, procrastination, and failure.

 

​Let's look at it another way.

Fast forward to a year from now, when you've been through this coaching programme with me, and you've got that social life you've always wanted.

You're feeling confident, charismatic, and positive. And when you meet new people, you know exactly how to connect with them if you wanted to, and how to be yourself around them.

You have all the close friends and relationships you want, because people generally like talking to you. You're magnetic, charming, and you help other people feel good about themselves. 

And if some people don't like you, you don't even care.

How would that feel? I really want to know - how much would that scenario coming true really mean to you?

Now as you think about that, let's look at that £8,340 again. If you were to break that down into a daily amount, that's only £22 a day.

So what's really more important to you? £22...or having  the kind of close friends and intimate relationships you want? 

£22...or being free from all the shyness, social anxiety, and self doubt that's weighed you down and kept you in your shell for years?

£22...or the feelings of confidence, optimism, and social connection that go along with taking charge of your social life?

 

Now if you're still not 100% ready to go for it, let's just list all the pros and cons of enrolling in the Social Life Mastery coaching package right now.

Because let's be frank, this level of coaching really isn't for everybody.

Let's start with the pros.

 

  • You get personal help from me. We meet in person every other week, where I can help you overcome your shyness, fear and insecurity. I can help you with your social skills, so you'll improve your listening, your body language, your conversations, and your ability to elicit emotions in others. That way, you'll become more interesting and memorable to new people, and you'll feel more charismatic and confident. I think we can agree that ongoing personal coaching trumps anything you can get from a book, every time.

 

  • You get a bonus two hours of online group coaching every month. This is where we can review your text message conversations, so you can learn how to communicate in the most authentic, natural, and positive way, towards deepening your levels of comfort and connection with new people. You can also have any questions about your new social relationships and your evolving social life answered, so you can make the most of them without feeling out of control, or worrying that you're going to screw things up.

 

  • You're learning skills that benefit other areas of your life as well. When you learn this stuff, you're not just getting a better social life. You're getting skills you can apply to getting a better job, to getting better work relationships, and to improving your family relationships. You'll be able to network better, speak better, communicate better, and create more opportunities for yourself no matter what your goals are in life. Everything that you have ever achieved or will ever achieve in life, has to be achieved with or through other people.

  

Cons.

 

  • This is not the cheapest thing in the world. But as we know, the outcome is worth it.

 

  • It takes time. In fact, we're spending six months together. And in order to really benefit from this, you need to be talking to people every day. So if you're serious about improving this area of your life, then you need to put in the time and effort.
  • By enrolling in this coaching programme, you'll have to face your fears. Nobody likes doing that. But whether you decide to enrol right now today or not, those fears will still come up for you eventually. Fear is a part of your biology, so there's nothing you can do about that. But if that's the case, doesn't it make sense to have someone in your corner to help you to deal with those fears? Reading another book isn't going to help you. Going to a forum isn't going to help you. That's why you need the help of someone who's been there and who genuinely gives a damn. And that's what you get by enrolling in my coaching programme.

So do you see? When you weigh out the pros and cons, doesn't it make more sense to have that kind of ongoing support and guidance than anything else? Including doing nothing at all?

Of course it does!

Here's What to Do Next

 

When you're ready, click on the link below to fill out the application form.

 

There are seven questions to answer, because I want to get a good sense of who you are as a person, what your goals are, and whether we'd be a good fit for each other.

 

If I think I can help you, that's great! I'll get in touch with you to discuss the best way to proceed.

 

Got any questions? Or are you not sure about something? Send me a quick message here. I'll get back to you as soon as possible.

Best,

Andrew McLean

 

P.S. If not now - when? If you don't say yes to your dreams, your goals, and to the friendships and relationships you know you deserve, when will you?

Dear Friend, 

If you’re even considering hiring a social life coach, then it probably does make sense for you to do it - provided you find a good coach, and you’re clear on what you want to accomplish. Here’s why. 

You already study personal development. You already know how much it would really mean to you to have the social life and close social connections of your dreams. And by being here now, by reading this letter, you’re already doing something about it.

You may not realise it, but that puts you in the small fraction of people who not only know what they want, but have the courage and discipline to actually go out and get it.

And because you study personal development, you also know that most of the greatest achievements of mankind, were not accomplished alone

Think about it. The very reason you’re here is because you’re tired of being alone.

 

And the only way you can get past that is to collaborate with other people.

 

So if you’re attached to the idea that you should go about this alone, then you probably should not hire a social life coach.

 

Having said that, I’d like you to consider the following.

 

  • You already know that hiring a good coach is critical to success.
  • You already know that figuring things out by trial and error by yourself, is the longest and hardest way you could go about learning anything.
  • You already know that a good coach who’s been where you are, and who’s overcome what you’re currently challenged by, can help and guide you better than anyone else.
  • You already know that you can have the social life you deserve, and intimate social connections you desire much faster with a coach than without one.
  • You already know that getting specific, tailored feedback on how you can improve your social and emotional skills, is immensely more beneficial to you than getting general advice from a book.

So with all that in mind, surely now’s the time when it makes sense to hire a social life coa​ch.

But There’s a Problem

There are several actually. First, a good coach is expensive, but generally considered to be worth it.

 

The problem is not necessarily in the cost - the problem is in finding the right coach for you.

 

Because, even though a coach may have a good track record of helping other people build the social lives of their dreams, how do you know that the same coach can also help you specifically?

 

Let’s look at the problem this way.

 

As you know, there is no one-size-fits all when it comes to social lives.

 

It takes a different degree of closeness, a different depth of social connection, and a different number or variety of friends to fulfill each of our needs for social intimacy.

 

What kind of social life would make you the happiest?

 

Do you want to meet new people all the time, and have a rich social circle of many friends?

 

Or do you want a smaller social circle of close friends you know really well?

 

Next, remember that everybody is different. Everybody thinks differently, feels differently, and learns differently.

 

That's why hiring a good social life coach is the perfect idea!

 

Because you’re getting a coaching programme tailored specifically to your goals, and to your thinking, feeling, and learning style.

 

So before you hire a social life coach, you want to know you've found one who's flexible, who listens to your goals and feelings, and who has your success as his top priority.

 

I am that coach.

 

Here’s Exactly What You’re Getting with My Social Life Mastery Coaching Package

 

My Social Life Mastery coaching package is six months long. 

 

In my experience, six months is roughly how long it takes to transform; to get past all that fear, insecurity and shyness when it comes to meeting new people.

 

And to evolve your natural charisma, where you're able to engage and connect to anyone at a deep level.

 

In order to achieve this, we meet twice a month in person, in London, for three hours at a time.

 

Just you and me. That’s six hours of one-to-one in-field coaching every month.

 

During our sessions together, you get coaching on overcoming your biggest emotional setbacks when it comes to meeting new people.

 

Whether you're afraid of being rejected, afraid of not being "enough," or afraid of judgement. 

 

You get the tools and mindsets you need to overcome those, so you can feel free to open up in your social interactions, and open up in your social life.

 

Ultimately, this benefits you by boosting your core self-image, and by increasing your overall sense of optimism and well being.

 

Next, we discuss the “people skills” it takes to get your social life to where you want it to be.

 

That’s the conversation techniques, the listening skills, the body language, the rapport-building techniques, and the social circle skills.

 

This benefits you by improving your social intelligence, so you’re able to handle and even lead any social interaction you encounter. No matter how awkward or intimidating.

 

Finally, we put these techniques into action by striking up conversations with strangers​.

 

Why on Earth should you want to talk to strangers?

 

Think about it. There was a time when your best friend was a stranger. So naturally any new person you see right now, could potentially be your next best friend. You never know.

 

But This Is So Much More Than Just Practising on Strangers.

 

This is meeting and engaging strangers in a genuine way, so that you can learn to get to know new people authentically and quickly.

 

That way, when you do meet someone you really get on well with, you have the social and emotional skills to know exactly how to make the most of that situation.

 

While you’re out doing that, you’re also hooked up to a discrete microphone, so I can listen in on your conversations with headphones.

 

​When you return, we discuss what you did well, and what you can do differently next time to better engage, captivate, and connect.

 

​This is the highly-specific, tailored feedback you need to fix all those little mistakes you didn’t know you were making in conversations.

 

And to give you that extra perspective on how you can improve your connections (always useful).

What Makes This Package Unique

 

If you went to any other coach for this, you’d typically be offered a weekend bootcamp, or a week-long “intensive” training.​

 

But, in my experience, one week just isn’t long enough to master the unique skills and mindsets it takes to be able to build and maintain a rewarding social life of close friends from scratch.

 

Let alone a weekend.

 

That’s why I’m offering you six months of one-to-one coaching with me personally.

To my knowledge, you don’t get that anywhere else.

 

Here's Just a Fraction of What You'll Learn

 

  • How to strike up a conversation anywhere, and make it fun - so you never have to worry about being lonely for the rest of your life.
  • How to keep a conversation going well by learning how to pick up on conversational offers, and responding to them in ‘off-script’ ways.
  • How to improve your body language, so you can appear more open and approachable.
  • What to listen out for and what to say, so you can elicit emotional language from people, and connect to them with a depth as if you’ve known each other for years.
  • How to build rapport, comfort and trust with new people quickly, so you can demonstrate your value as a potential friend or acquaintance.
  • How to handle “rejection” so you can feel more confident and positive about meeting new people.
  • How to lead a conversation without being bossy , so you can become more charismatic and attract new people to your social life like a magnet.

  

And it gets better because you're also getting. . .

 

A Bonus Two-Hour Group Call Every Month

 

Did I mention, it's social life coaching?

 

So in addition to the six hours of in-person coaching you get with me personally, every month…

 

...you’re also getting a bonus two-hour group call every month to discuss texting, dating, and all other aspects of your evolving social life.

That way, you get the support and guidance you need to get you through those awkward early stages of a new friendship or relationship.

 

Because it's one thing to learn how to connect with new people, and a completely separate thing to learn how to follow through on those connections, and actually build a fulfilling social life from scratch.

 

And hey - because you're here now, and you're interested enough to still be reading at this point, let me introduce the price.

The 'cost' of my Social Life Mastery coaching package is £8,340.

 

​I know what you're thinking! So let's be honest. It's not cheap.

​However, my reasoning for this price is quite simple.

I want you to get serious results with my coaching. That’s why I’m asking for a serious commitment from you.

 

​Think about it. The more you invest in your own success, the more committed you become to your success.

 

​On the flip side, the less invested you are in your own success, the more open you become to excuse-making, procrastination, and failure.

 

​Let's look at it another way.

Fast forward to a year from now, when you've been through this coaching programme with me, and you've got that social life you've always wanted.

You're feeling confident, charismatic, and positive. And when you meet new people, you know exactly how to connect with them if you wanted to, and how to be yourself around them.

You have all the close friends and relationships you want, because people generally like talking to you. You're magnetic, charming, and you help other people feel good about themselves. 

And if some people don't like you, you don't even care.

How would that feel? I really want to know - how much would that scenario coming true really mean to you?

Now as you think about that, let's look at that £8,340 again. If you were to break that down into a daily amount, that's only £22 a day.

So what's really more important to you? £22...or having  the kind of close friends and intimate relationships you want? 

£22...or being free from all the shyness, social anxiety, and self doubt that's weighed you down and kept you in your shell for years?

£22...or the feelings of confidence, optimism, and social connection that go along with taking charge of your social life?

 

Now if you're still not 100% ready to go for it, let's just list all the pros and cons of enrolling in the Social Life Mastery coaching package right now.

Because let's be frank, this level of coaching really isn't for everybody.

Let's start with the pros.

 

  • You get personal help from me. We meet in person every other week, where I can help you overcome your shyness, fear and insecurity. I can help you with your social skills, so you'll improve your listening, your body language, your conversations, and your ability to elicit emotions in others. That way, you'll become more interesting and memorable to new people, and you'll feel more charismatic and confident. I think we can agree that ongoing personal coaching trumps anything you can get from a book, every time.

 

  • You get a bonus two hours of online group coaching every month. This is where we can review your text message conversations, so you can learn how to communicate in the most authentic, natural, and positive way, towards deepening your levels of comfort and connection with new people. You can also have any questions about your new social relationships and your evolving social life answered, so you can make the most of them without feeling out of control, or worrying that you're going to screw things up.

 

  • You're learning skills that benefit other areas of your life as well. When you learn this stuff, you're not just getting a better social life. You're getting skills you can apply to getting a better job, to getting better work relationships, and to improving your family relationships. You'll be able to network better, speak better, communicate better, and create more opportunities for yourself no matter what your goals are in life. Everything that you have ever achieved or will ever achieve in life, has to be achieved with or through other people.

  

Cons.

 

  • This is not the cheapest thing in the world. But as we know, the outcome is worth it.

 

  • It takes time. In fact, we're spending six months together. And in order to really benefit from this, you need to be talking to people every day. So if you're serious about improving this area of your life, then you need to put in the time and effort.
  • By enrolling in this coaching programme, you'll have to face your fears. Nobody likes doing that. But whether you decide to enrol right now today or not, those fears will still come up for you eventually. Fear is a part of your biology, so there's nothing you can do about that. But if that's the case, doesn't it make sense to have someone in your corner to help you to deal with those fears? Reading another book isn't going to help you. Going to a forum isn't going to help you. That's why you need the help of someone who's been there and who genuinely gives a damn. And that's what you get by enrolling in my coaching programme.

So do you see? When you weigh out the pros and cons, doesn't it make more sense to have that kind of ongoing support and guidance than anything else? Including doing nothing at all?

Of course it does!

Here's What to Do Next

 

When you're ready, click on the link below to fill out the application form.

 

There are seven questions to answer, because I want to get a good sense of who you are as a person, what your goals are, and whether we'd be a good fit for each other.

 

If I think I can help you, that's great! I'll get in touch with you to discuss the best way to proceed.

 

Got any questions? Or are you not sure about something? Send me a quick message here. I'll get back to you as soon as possible.

Best,

Andrew McLean

 

P.S. If not now - when? If you don't say yes to your dreams, your goals, and to the friendships and relationships you know you deserve, when will you?

When it Makes Sense to Hire a Social Life Coach - Especially When You've Tried Everything Else Already.

When it Makes Sense to Hire a Social Life Coach - Especially When You've Tried Everything Else Already.

From Andrew McLean

Creator of Supercharge Your Social Life

London, U.K.

From Andrew McLean

Creator of Supercharge Your Social Life

London, U.K.

Results not guaranteed. Coaching takes willpower, and individual outcomes may vary. Copyright © 2018 Andrew McLean Coaching. All Rights Reserved. Website by Richard Middleton.

Results not guaranteed. Coaching takes willpower, and individual outcomes may vary. Copyright © 2018 Andrew McLean Coaching. All Rights Reserved. Website by Richard Middleton.